Pursuing Personal Growth: Why change can be good

If you hang out with me for too long I will have you believing in yourself and your ability to do anything you put your mind to.

I’m an encourager and a coach. I’m intentional about my ability to influence people and lead them to more successful outcomes whether it’s in business or in life. This is important to me, not only because I’m certain it’s a divine gift I was given so therefore I should use it but also because I truly believe our human experience is about improving and growing ourselves.

I love change. It motivates me. However, I know not everyone is comfortable with change. Not everyone is comfortable with the idea of pursuing personal growth and development because it requires us to see ourselves differently and be willing to change. Some people struggle with the concept of personal development because it means doing things differently. Or subconsciously they fear that it means something about themselves is not good enough or that the desire to change and grow implies that the life they currently know isn’t working.

My loves, what if personal development and growth was just an opportunity to enhance who you already are? An opportunity to experience more of what life has to offer and raise our level of consciousness to what’s possible. 

Personal development is your journey, no one else’s. It’s personal. You get to decide where and how you want to grow.  And it’s a journey that can lead to greater fulfillment, happiness, and overall well-being. Your reasons for pursuing personal growth are your own and those reasons will likely change over time throughout your life.

Here are a few reasons why you might want to pursue personal growth

1. Fulfillment: Personal growth often involves setting and achieving goals, which can provide a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. As you progress and overcome challenges, you'll experience a deeper sense of satisfaction and purpose in your life.

2. Self-Discovery: Engaging in personal growth allows you to explore your strengths, weaknesses, passions, and values. This self-discovery process helps you better understand who you are and what truly matters to you, leading to more authentic decision-making. 

3. Increased Resilience: Personal growth involves stepping out of your comfort zone and facing challenges. This process strengthens your resilience and ability to adapt to new situations, making you better equipped to handle life's ups and downs.

4. Improved Relationships: As you work on personal growth, you'll likely develop better communication skills, empathy, and emotional intelligence. These qualities can lead to healthier and more meaningful relationships with others.

5. Professional Success: Personal growth often translates into professional growth. As you develop new skills, improve your mindset, and become more self-aware, you'll be better positioned to excel in your career and take on new opportunities.

6. Reduced Stress: Personal growth can help you manage stress more effectively by teaching you coping strategies and promoting a positive mindset. As you learn to handle challenges and setbacks, you'll experience a greater sense of calm and balance.

7. Enhanced Well-Being: Engaging in personal growth activities such as mindfulness, meditation, exercise, and self-care can have a positive impact on your overall well-being. These practices contribute to better mental, emotional, and physical health.

8. Continuous Learning: Pursuing personal growth encourages a mindset of continuous learning and self-improvement. This attitude allows you to stay curious, open-minded, and adaptable in an ever-changing world.

9. Setting an Example: When you actively pursue personal growth, you become a role model for others. Your commitment to self-improvement can inspire friends, family, and colleagues to embark on their own journeys of growth.

10. Creating a Meaningful Life: Ultimately, personal growth is about creating a life that aligns with your values and aspirations. It's about living intentionally and designing a future that brings you joy, contentment, and a sense of purpose.